At about the 5th or 6th grade, my daughters had to memorize the Declaration of Independence.
When they got to : ” We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”, a long discussion on the “right to Happiness” versus the “right to the pursuit of Happiness” always followed.
It is an important distinction that we as a society grant the right for people to Pursue happiness, but there is no guarantee that you will ever find it. What a shame to waste that right to pursue Happiness by chasing shadows and never finding any of it. Here are 5 things every kid(or the kid in all of us) should remember when they head out on that pursuit.
1) Don’t assume you know where you will find happiness. You might have ideas about where your happiness will lie, but it is just as likely that it will surprise you and you will find happiness in unexpected places.
2) Happiness is rarely expensive, hardly ever uses batteries and never,ever fake pees.
3) Happiness is often dirty, creates a mess (please clean up afterward) and sometimes requires odd bits of string and glue.
4) Flitting about like a butterfly or a busy bee can be absorbing, distracting and fun;but sometimes you have to lie still like a snake on a hot afternoon, stare up at the clouds and let the happiness bask into you slowly.
5) You can pursue something all you like, but if you do not clearly and intentionally pay attention to the life around you, it is likely you will never find it- even if it is sitting right in front of you.
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